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xxii, canada, infp, virgo.

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semi-hiatus.
multifandom mess.
tracking #kayascodelorio

sideblogs
thai dramas
khh&krnb
rpdr (hiatus)

networks
lakorn network
lakorn ladies

currently
watching: superstore rewatch
reading: dial a for aunties / storygraph
listening to: ash island, olivia rodrigo

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  • lingrix

    “If a person can’t get out of bed, something is making them exhausted. If a student isn’t writing papers, there’s some aspect of the assignment that they can’t do without help. If an employee misses deadlines constantly, something is making organization and deadline-meeting difficult. Even if a person is actively choosing to self-sabotage, there’s a reason for it — some fear they’re working through, some need not being met, a lack of self-esteem being expressed. People do not choose to fail or disappoint. No one wants to feel incapable, apathetic, or ineffective. If you look at a person’s action (or inaction) and see only laziness, you are missing key details. There is always an explanation. There are always barriers. Just because you can’t see them, or don’t view them as legitimate, doesn’t mean they’re not there. Look harder. Maybe you weren’t always able to look at human behavior this way. That’s okay. Now you are. Give it a try.”

    “Laziness Does Not Exist” by E Price on Medium

    (And a footnote I didn’t see explicitly covered in the article: laziness still doesn’t exist when it is you yourself making no progress and not knowing why. You deserve that respect and consideration, too, even from yourself.)

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