uhh not to fight anyone but neil and aaron were both abused but still mourn the death of their mothers and people accept their reactions and sympathize with them, because it’s a common reaction to trauma

jean was abused but still tried to go back to the nest, and people accept and sympathize with him as well

kevin grew up seeing riko as a brother, but instead of accepting his reaction to his trauma caused by his own family people call him a coward and selfish

hmmm